Every year on March 21 we celebrate World Down Syndrome Day. All across the world people who have Down syndrome or been graced by Down syndrome are writing and talking to create awareness of the gifts of Down syndrome.
Because of Alex, we are lucky to say, every day is WDSD in our lives. Our 19 year old daughter has graduated from high school and is waiting to hear from college. She has taken a gap year and works in the community, volunteers and participates in social activities. She has just returned from representing the United States of America in the World Winter Special Olympic Games in South Korea.
Alex challenges all who meet her to change their idea of what Down syndrome means. She tears away at pre-conceived notions of Down syndrome one person at a time, every day.
This year in honor of WDSD bloggers across the world are sharing thoughts on two seemingly simple words: fact and fallacy. As a person who has been graced by Down syndrome these nouns permeate our lives. As Alex unknowingly changes the eyes of everyone she meets, she also unknowingly turns fallacies into fact.
The following conversations have occurred between me and educators over the years:
- Why should I teach her math? - She can use a calculator
- Why should I teach her to tie her shoes? - There is velcro
- Why should I teach her to read beyond a third grade level? - She is going to live in assisted living anyway
- Why does she need more speech? - She can talk
- Can you come to the dance? - Alex needs supervision
- Alex can do simple addition and subtraction in her head.
- Alex can tie her shoes.
- Alex is waiting to hear from college and wants to live in her own apartment.
- Alex’s speech is very good. She converses and speaks on the phone and everyone understands her. She still takes speech once a week.
- Alex takes the bus to work and has excellent safety skills.
- Only you and John could raise a child like Alex
- God only gives you what you can handle
- You are a great mother
The above was taken from the post - Verb 6 Understand - first published on October 4, 2010.
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